David Harder is our guest today.
He wrote a story called Final Grains of Sand.
Today, David is here to share the story behind his story.
How well do we truly know people?
When James Kreider receives the devastating news his life is being cut short with cancer, he is immediately filled with shock and disbelief.
At 60 years, Jim is too young to die and believes he has a whole life ahead of him. When the reality of his impending demise sinks in, Jim methodically prepares for his final days, including trying to heal old wounds. With a dash of life’s regrets and unfinished business, Jim’s hours are spent pondering the legacy he will leave for his friends and children.
In preparing for the end, Jim selects five individuals to represent his life at the funeral service. This group includes Jim’s boss, his personal physician, a neighbor, the pastor of his church, and a woman whom Jim was involved with in a long-term affair. None of the individuals know each other or why they were chosen.
Summoned to the office of Jim’s attorney, the representatives disclose emotions and information few individuals want to hear. Reluctantly, they agree to share every facet of their friend.
Jim’s story not only transforms the five representatives but alters the lives of the funeral guests.
At the heart of Final Grains of Sand, this thought-provoking novel gives readers an opportunity to pause and reflect on the way they see others, as well as how they portray themselves to those around, and to help readers realize the value of one’s life is less about the length of time, but rather how we touch other people through our actions and words.
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What inspired you to write this story?
Final Grains of Sand found its birth during a conversation with a friend who told me about her father. When she described the man, he seemed larger than life, but at the same time, he had this tremendous influence on his family and friends.
I realized we rarely know someone completely. We see facets of the individual from our perspective and often make judgments from our point of view. To know someone completely, we would need to share from all walks of a person’s life and formulate a grander vision.
Unfortunately, all too often, we wait until a person dies before we discover who they really were, but then it seems too late. This book wanted to give the reader a behind the scenes view of one man’s life. The following is a tribute to the man, whom this story found its genesis:
Dedicated to Roy Kreider Woods II
February 6, 1936 ~ March 14, 2013
Although I never personally met Roy, I discovered through his daughter the truth concerning this brilliant man. A wonderful husband, terrific father, and loving grandfather, Roy instilled in his children appreciation for classical music and the ballads. A member of Kappa Sigma while attending the University of Illinois, Roy served four years in the U.S. Navy as a pilot. He enjoyed and continued flying as a civilian.
A man of inspiration and character, Roy was an adventurous spirit, participating in every sport, including skydiving, racquetball, boating, traveling, and studying. Roy appreciated and loved traveling the world. Roy was also a wise business investor, and he worked as an industrial engineer for Northwestern Steel and Wire Company for more than thirty years.
I wish I could have met Roy because this loving man was a tremendous influence on his family and many other people. Plus, he crammed an enormous amount of life into the limited time he had on this earth. The life of Roy Woods provided the inspiration for this book.
Wow. Sounds like your book is a good read! Thanks for sharing.
David Harder currently resides in the Prescott area of Arizona. He grew up in southern California and served in the U.S. Navy during the Vietnam conflict.
For nearly eight years, he lived and worked in Germany. From sales and marketing, he eventually became a CEO and business owner before moving to Arizona.
A graduate of San Jose College with a degree in business, David also studied at Santa Clara University. He is also a graduate of Vineyard Institute in Biblical studies and leadership.
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Robin in NC says
The fact that Jim can get it together enough to leave his legacy in the hands of five special people in his life is very intriguing to me.
David Harder says
Death can be confusing, scary, and a relief. It creates another set of emotions for those who know us. “Final Grains of Sand” is a story many of us can relate as it explores these feelings and the issues. Since the five people are unknown to each other, it gives the story a different twist. Getting beyond the cover of a person’s life and into the pages where we’ll find the juicy stuff—now that’s worth exploring!
Veronica Wimberly says
Beautiful story that causes us to rethink relationships and perceptions. Thank you for sharing it with all of us as it is an exercise from which we can all profit.
David Harder says
Thank you Veronica. I agree, albof could spend more time thinking about fellow humans and the impact we have in other’s lives.
Caryl Kane says
Final Grains of Sand will bring awareness that we are here for a purpose. Not for our own pleasure. This books sounds like a must read!
David Harder says
Caryl, no matter how large or small, we are ALL here for a purpose. We have the greatest impact when we live our purpose!
Carol Ezovski says
It sounds like a good book and one I can relate to. For one, my husband recently passed away from cancer (leukemia) at age 70. But in reading your bio there are so many things we “share.” I am from San Jose (and you went to college there). My husband was a pilot in the Navy and served in Vietnam also.
David Harder says
Carol, I’m so sorry for you loss and I pray the fond memories of your husband sustain you. I hope you find comfort from my book. I have received many reviews from individuals who found the story encouraging.
Janet Estridge says
David’s book reminds me of the time I spoke at a friend’s funeral.
There were 3 of us who told about her life, from when she was a small child, to when I knew her, and later on before she died.
I was way out of my comfort zone but I did it for her.
David Harder says
Thanks Janet for letting me know the concept for the story had a basis in truth.
Jerry says
Proof that intimate moments in our lives are powerful and are never really forgotten. They impact those who experience those special moments and haunt those who appear in the future pages of our lives.
David Harder says
Thank you Jerry. Excellent insight!